Just the Way the Cookie Crumbles

They say that everything in life has a place and a time. And I agree with that there are lots of things that relates to. Relationships, careers, certain events in your life, I could keep going, but I'm not. Maybe you are wondering why, mostly because that's not the point of this blog. I'm sure you are wondering what then is the point. Well, there are those things in life that no matter what don't have a time or a place. There are certain things that no matter what, for whatever reason just aren't meant to be. It can happen just about anywhere in life. For me it's happened in my career, I just wasn't meant to work in the area I majored in college. I eventually realized it just wasn't meant for me my last semester in college. And rather than change my major I just finished up and graduated.

For me though it happened even more in relationships. There were several occasions were for whatever reason, either one or both of us had said, "This just ain't meant to be". Of course, there were times were it was a very easy decision, and then of course times where it was a rather difficult decision. There were times where it was an easy mutual decision. And then there were times, of course, where one of us had a rather difficult time accepting that it would never happen. Let's face it, there are times when there are two people that no matter what the circumstances cannot be. A lot times it simply comes down to something simple like a personality crash, one of the people isn't attracted to other, or there's someone else that's in the picture. It's tough sometimes, but that's just the way the cookie crumbles sometimes.